A Woman Named Dale: In the Shadows of Grace
by Kae R. Nelson · September 2025
Dear Reader,
Thank you for picking up A Woman Named Dale. Stories do not live on shelves, they live in the hands and hearts of the people willing to sit with them. The fact that you are here means you were willing to sit with Dale.
Dale is not simply a character. She is a composite of women we know, women we have misunderstood, and women we may have been at one time in our lives. She carries strength in places the world has tried to fracture. She carries silence where she was told her voice was too much. She carries memory like a second skin. And still, she moves forward.
I wrote this story because I believe in the quiet courage of women who endure without applause. I believe in the power of ordinary lives to hold extraordinary depth. Dale’s journey is not about perfection or even triumph in the traditional sense. It is about reckoning. It is about choosing to live honestly in a world that often rewards pretending.
There were moments while writing this book when Dale surprised me. She refused to bend in places I thought she might. She forgave in ways I did not expect. She grieved longer than I anticipated. In many ways, she taught me that resilience does not always look like loud strength. Sometimes it looks like getting up again. Sometimes it looks like staying.
If you see yourself in her, know that you are not alone. If you see someone you love in her, hold them a little closer. If her story unsettles you, I hope it unsettles you in a way that invites reflection rather than judgment.
My hope is that when you finish this book, you will think differently about the women whose stories are told in whispers. I hope you will listen more carefully. I hope you will extend grace more freely. And most of all, I hope you will remember that every woman carries a history that shaped her long before you met her.
Thank you for reading. Thank you for witnessing. And thank you for allowing Dale to walk with you for a while.
With gratitude,
Kae R. Nelson
— Kae R. Nelson
About A Woman Named Dale: In the Shadows of Grace
A father’s rejection, a mother’s silence, and a child’s decision to live on her terms.
What if the most important conversations in your life happened in the spaces between words—in diary entries never meant to be read, in letters never sent, in documents that capture the truth we can't always speak aloud?
In 2019, eighteen-year-old Dale flees small-town Alabama with $3,200 and a broken heart. When Dale's viral Facebook post about "complicated grief" sparks a national conversation about family healing, she discovers that her greatest pain might become her greatest purpose. As she learns to turn survival into service, Dale realizes that some stories can only be told by living them first.
This isn't a story of heroes and villains. No one is all right or all wrong—not Dale, not her family, not the church, not the community. Through documents that reveal multiple perspectives, readers must decide for themselves who deserves compassion, who earned forgiveness, and what love looks like when it's complicated.
A Woman Named Dale is an unforgettable epistolary debut about family healing, chosen community, and the courage to live authentically. Some people are born loud. Dale Morrison was born written. And her story will change the way you think about family, faith, and finding your way home.
Content Note: Contains themes of family rejection, religious trauma, transgender discrimination, molestation, grief, and physical/emotional abuse within a story that ultimately celebrates healing and hope.
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Kae R. Nelson
Kae R. Nelson is a storyteller who traded the humid summers of the South for the desert heat of Las Vegas, where she now lives with her family, one loyal dog, and a garden that refuses to cooperate. By day, Kae shapes young minds as a high school English Literature Arts teacher, and by night (and weekends, and summer breaks), she crafts the kind of stories that make readers forget they have anywhere else to be. A Woman Named Dale marks her debut as a novelist, introducing readers to a voice that's both authentically southern and refreshingly unconventional. When she's not grading papers or wrestling with plot points, you might find Kae in her small Las Vegas backyard, optimistically tending to plants that seem determined to test her patience.
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